I am the moderator of The Ruth Institute's Ask a Survivor Blog. You can submit your questions to me regarding sexual abuse, trauma, victimization, healing, etc. Your name will never be used in my public responses.

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My expertise lies in victimization. Because of what happened to me, I easily empathize with others and can create for them a level of comfort and reassurance as they seek healing. A lot of times people who have suffered abuse (whether it’s direct as in sexual abuse or indirect as in being sucked into the hook-up culture) don’t know what’s normal when they’re trying to heal. They might have questions such as:

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• Why do I feel this way?

• Why am I thinking like this?

• How can I get through this difficult moment?

• How am I supposed to move forward now that this horrible thing has happened?​

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A parent or loved one of a survivor might have similar questions such as:

 

• What are the signs of abuse?

• Why is my child acting like this?

• How can I help?

• I’m pretty upset myself. Have I been traumatized too?

 

Questions such as these are all part of “Survival 101.” Sometimes people need to talk to someone who has "been there." That's where I can help! I want to help you navigate through the difficulties you are facing. My goal is to help bring awareness, hope, peace, and healing to those who need it. 

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I’m here for you. Let’s talk. 

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For more information or to submit a question, please email me at AskASurvivor@ruthinstitute.org or visit the Ruth Institute's Ask a Survivor page.