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Here is where I share insights and information about issues such as trauma, faith, and healing. I also write the occasional book review.
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Imitating Mary’s Yes Even When It’s Hard
Today on the Feast of the Annunciation we pause to reflect on one of the most powerful moments in human history: the “yes” of the Blessed Mother.

Faith Hakesley
Mar 25


Between Beginnings and Goodbyes: The Bittersweet Season of Motherhood
I’m in a strange season of life that I don’t often hear about. It’s the moment when you find yourself holding a newborn in your arms while watching another child stand on the edge of adulthood.

Faith Hakesley
Mar 13


The Part People Don’t Talk About After Someone Dies
There is something people rarely talk about after someone dies. The after.

Faith Hakesley
Mar 11


Book Review: Your Valentine by Anthony DeStefano
⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ +JMJ+ Every February, our culture loudly proclaims its version of love. Hearts, chocolates, flowers, and grand romantic gestures flood the shelves and social media feeds. Somewhere along the way, love itself has become strangely distorted even among Christians. Love is often reduced to a feeling, a fleeting emotion, or a self-centered pursuit of personal happiness. Marriage is redefined as a contract of convenience (a mere piece of paper) rather than a covenant

Faith Hakesley
Feb 11


Still, God Is Near
+JMJ+ Suffering is not something we seek. Even when we love God deeply, and even when we want to trust Him completely, suffering can still takes us by surprise. Whether suffering has come to us, someone we care about, or even a stranger, it interrupts our plans, takes away our sense of safety, and causes us to ask questions. I have lived long enough to know this firsthand. A priest once tried to destroy me. For a time, he nearly succeeded. That is not something I write lightl

Faith Hakesley
Dec 19, 2025


Stop Judging Grief: A Reflection on the Attacks Against a Grieving Widow
+JMJ+ In the days since Charlie Kirk’s tragic passing, something deeply disturbing has unfolded, not just the loss itself, but the viciousness directed toward his wife, Erika. The very people who claim to love Charlie, claim to honor his legacy, claim to be devoted to Christ, are spending an astonishing amount of time doing the opposite. If people care so much about Charlie and his family, they’re doing a remarkable job of proving otherwise. Some people are behaving horribly.

Faith Hakesley
Dec 12, 2025


Exciting News!
+JMJ+ I am overjoyed to share some truly unexpected and humbling news: I will be publishing a children’s book with Pauline Books & Media ! Never in my wildest dreams did I think I would be writing a children’s book, but God had other plans. This particular story is so near and dear to my heart. While I can’t share details just yet (trust me, I will as soon as I can!), I am beyond grateful for this new venture. What makes this even more special is the opportunity to work wit

Faith Hakesley
Oct 8, 2025


Book Review: All Hallows’ Eve by Anthony DeStefano
Every year as October 31st approaches, the world seems to be filled with jack-o’-lanterns, costumes, and candy. While there’s nothing...

Faith Hakesley
Oct 8, 2025


Charlie Kirk’s Death: Words Have Consequence
+JMJ+ Many are saying, “Even if we disagreed politically with Charlie Kirk, his was still a human life senselessly taken. We should never celebrate that.” Agreed. It never should have happened. Murder is evil. Full stop. Charlie Kirk died defending truth despite the fact that he did so in a calm, respectful, and humble way. His assassination is proof of paying the ultimate cost of discipleship. Here’s the issue: some of the very people expressing their dismay and offering “t

Faith Hakesley
Sep 14, 2025


The Cross Transformed: From Death to Life
+JMJ+ To the ancient Romans, the cross was a tool of terror. It was the most shameful and brutal death imaginable, and it was reserved...

Faith Hakesley
Sep 14, 2025


Living as Light in a Dark World
The past week has felt unbearably heavy.

Faith Hakesley
Sep 12, 2025


Pride, Pedestals, and Lazy Discipleship: A Wake-Up Call for Catholics
+JMJ+ I’ll be honest with you: I’m sick of this. As a survivor of clerical abuse, every new scandal involving any known Church figure (priest, nun, influencer, etc.) can feel like someone ripping the scab off an old wound. It’s “one more thing” that shakes trust, reopens pain, and leaves many of us asking, How much more can we take? The recent scandal surrounding Catholic apologist Alex Jurado (known online as “Voice of Reason”) has been just that. His public denial of serio

Faith Hakesley
Aug 20, 2025


A Season of Stretching and Grace
+JMJ+ I’m into my third trimester of pregnancy with our sixth baby, and it’s safe to say this has been the most stretching season of my life (both literally and figuratively). Every pregnancy brings its own set of challenges, but this one has been especially difficult—physically, emotionally, and spiritually. I’m exhausted in every sense of the word. It’s been a season of deep suffering, of uncertainty, and of navigating change. A season that has required me to come out of my

Faith Hakesley
Aug 11, 2025


From One Form of Depravity to Another: The Illusion of “Progress”
Recent changes in American Eagle’s advertising strategy have sparked both celebration from conservatives… and also concern.

Faith Hakesley
Jul 31, 2025


When Pride Replaces Reverence: A Call to Catholic Fidelity
I’ve seen too many Catholics walk away from the Church over hard truths.

Faith Hakesley
Jul 13, 2025


Who Is My Neighbor? Mercy, Truth, and the Courage to Love Like Christ
Today’s Gospel presents one of Jesus’ most well-known parables, that of the Good Samaritan.

Faith Hakesley
Jul 13, 2025


A Troubling Dispensation: When Church Leaders Undermine the Eucharist and the Soul
Recently, the Bishop of San Bernardino issued a sweeping dispensation from the Sunday Mass obligation for all undocumented immigrants.

Faith Hakesley
Jul 10, 2025


Pettiness in the Pews: When Faith Becomes a Performance
There’s a sad, quiet kind of brokenness that sometimes plays out in church halls, prayer groups, and ministries.

Faith Hakesley
Jun 30, 2025


Christ First—Not Comfort First
It’s frustrating (and frankly dangerous) when people justify sin by saying, “Well, Jesus never said anything about that.”

Faith Hakesley
Jun 30, 2025


Come Worthily: Preparing Our Hearts to Receive Jesus
+JMJ+ This past Sunday, Catholics celebrated the Solemnity of Corpus Christi. It is a special day on which the Church invites us to fix our eyes, minds, and hearts on the reality of the Eucharist: Jesus Christ (Body, Blood, Soul, and Divinity) is truly present under the humble appearances of bread and wine. The Eucharist is the source and summit of our faith (CCC 1324). It is Christ Himself, our strength, our sustenance, and our Savior. Every time we receive Him in Holy Commu

Faith Hakesley
Jun 27, 2025
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