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Here is where I share insights and information about issues such as trauma, faith, and healing. I also write the occasional book review.
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Between Beginnings and Goodbyes: The Bittersweet Season of Motherhood
I’m in a strange season of life that I don’t often hear about. It’s the moment when you find yourself holding a newborn in your arms while watching another child stand on the edge of adulthood.

Faith Hakesley
Mar 13


Book Review: Your Valentine by Anthony DeStefano
⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ +JMJ+ Every February, our culture loudly proclaims its version of love. Hearts, chocolates, flowers, and grand romantic gestures flood the shelves and social media feeds. Somewhere along the way, love itself has become strangely distorted even among Christians. Love is often reduced to a feeling, a fleeting emotion, or a self-centered pursuit of personal happiness. Marriage is redefined as a contract of convenience (a mere piece of paper) rather than a covenant

Faith Hakesley
Feb 11


A Season of Stretching and Grace
+JMJ+ I’m into my third trimester of pregnancy with our sixth baby, and it’s safe to say this has been the most stretching season of my life (both literally and figuratively). Every pregnancy brings its own set of challenges, but this one has been especially difficult—physically, emotionally, and spiritually. I’m exhausted in every sense of the word. It’s been a season of deep suffering, of uncertainty, and of navigating change. A season that has required me to come out of my

Faith Hakesley
Aug 11, 2025


When Pride Replaces Reverence: A Call to Catholic Fidelity
I’ve seen too many Catholics walk away from the Church over hard truths.

Faith Hakesley
Jul 13, 2025


Where are the Good Men?
Once again, we’re watching a tragic and infuriating scenario play out in the news: a young male victimized by a predatory adult woman.

Faith Hakesley
Jul 2, 2025


Pettiness in the Pews: When Faith Becomes a Performance
There’s a sad, quiet kind of brokenness that sometimes plays out in church halls, prayer groups, and ministries.

Faith Hakesley
Jun 30, 2025


Love Over Pride: Serving Others for the Right Reasons
There are situations in which we genuinely want to help someone.

Faith Hakesley
Jun 5, 2025


A Catholic Response to Pride Month
+JMJ+ Every June, we are surrounded by messages of affirmation and celebration tied to LGBTQ+ identities. For Catholics, this month can bring tension, not because we reject people, but because we are committed to truth. Truth is not negotiable even when it’s not considered fashionable. The Church has never changed its teaching on this not even under Pope Francis, whose words have often been misunderstood or misrepresented. His well-known phrase, “Who am I to judge?” has been

Faith Hakesley
Jun 1, 2025


Surrender and Trust: Choosing Grace in the Midst of it All
+JMJ+ If there’s one word I could use to describe the last several months, it’s surrender (followed closely by trust) . This season of my life has been marked by a lot of change. My family is full of hope and joy (and nervousness) as we anticipate the birth of our sixth child due this fall. I have navigated through grief and loss, celebrating unexpected joys, and enduring unexpected sufferings. I'm doing my best to remain steady through the trials and errors. There's also

Faith Hakesley
May 22, 2025


A Reflection of Love, Loss, and Our Heavenly Mother
+JMJ+ Mother’s Day can bring out a full range of emotions. For some, it’s a day of celebration—of hugs, flowers, and thank-you’s. It’s a...

Faith Hakesley
May 6, 2025


Staying Away from Toxic and Abusive Relatives
A gentle reminder about distancing yourself from abusive/toxic relationships +JMJ+ The holidays are fast approaching and I want to...

Faith Hakesley
Nov 16, 2021


My Love, My Cross, My Joy
Marriage after abuse +JMJ+ This month, my husband and I are celebrating 12 years of marriage. Actually, our anniversary also falls on the...

Faith Hakesley
Jun 8, 2020


Grace Amid the Chaos
Some encouragement for families struggling with stress in the home +JMJ+ Sometimes life around us becomes so chaotic or full of anxiety...

Faith Hakesley
May 4, 2020
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