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Welcome to my Blog!

Here is where I share insights and information about issues such as trauma, faith, and healing. I also write the occasional book review.
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Still, God Is Near
+JMJ+ Suffering is not something we seek. Even when we love God deeply, and even when we want to trust Him completely, suffering can still takes us by surprise. Whether suffering has come to us, someone we care about, or even a stranger, it interrupts our plans, takes away our sense of safety, and causes us to ask questions. I have lived long enough to know this firsthand. A priest once tried to destroy me. For a time, he nearly succeeded. That is not something I write lightl

Faith Hakesley
Dec 19, 2025


Stop Judging Grief: A Reflection on the Attacks Against a Grieving Widow
+JMJ+ In the days since Charlie Kirk’s tragic passing, something deeply disturbing has unfolded, not just the loss itself, but the viciousness directed toward his wife, Erika. The very people who claim to love Charlie, claim to honor his legacy, claim to be devoted to Christ, are spending an astonishing amount of time doing the opposite. If people care so much about Charlie and his family, they’re doing a remarkable job of proving otherwise. Some people are behaving horribly.

Faith Hakesley
Dec 12, 2025


Living as Light in a Dark World
The past week has felt unbearably heavy.

Faith Hakesley
Sep 12, 2025


When Pride Replaces Reverence: A Call to Catholic Fidelity
I’ve seen too many Catholics walk away from the Church over hard truths.

Faith Hakesley
Jul 13, 2025


Suffering for Priests: A Prayer I Didn’t Understand but a Grace I Still Carry
Meeting (or even just hearing about) a priest who is also a survivor of clerical abuse stops me in my tracks.

Faith Hakesley
Jun 5, 2025


Truth Can Hurt...Especially When It’s Twisted
+JMJ+ Years ago, when my brother suddenly died at 22, before we even had the autopsy results, a local paper ran a story implying...

Faith Hakesley
May 20, 2025


Facing Chronic Illness: Gratitude, Grief, and Grace
A reflection on living with chronic illness. +JMJ+ Last week, I underwent my third ICD generator change. If you live with a chronic...

Faith Hakesley
May 8, 2025


Empty Places at the Table: Coping with Loss Around the Holidays
+JMJ+ It hardly seems possible, but the holidays are once again upon us and, as so often happens, they bring with them a flood of varying...

Faith Hakesley
Nov 25, 2019


The Pain of Grief: Trusting in God When We Don't Understand
+JMJ+ Last weekend, time seemed to stop when I received the unexpected news that my 23-year-old cousin had passed away in his sleep after...

Faith Hakesley
Nov 5, 2019


On the 18th Annviersary of my Brother's Death: Remembering Matt
Originally posted to Faith Restored on July 2, 2019 Last week I experienced one of the most terrifying experiences of my life when I...

Faith Hakesley
Nov 2, 2019
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