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Here is where I share insights and information about issues such as trauma, faith, and healing. I also write the occasional book review.
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Still, God Is Near
+JMJ+ Suffering is not something we seek. Even when we love God deeply, and even when we want to trust Him completely, suffering can still takes us by surprise. Whether suffering has come to us, someone we care about, or even a stranger, it interrupts our plans, takes away our sense of safety, and causes us to ask questions. I have lived long enough to know this firsthand. A priest once tried to destroy me. For a time, he nearly succeeded. That is not something I write lightl

Faith Hakesley
Dec 19, 2025


Stop Judging Grief: A Reflection on the Attacks Against a Grieving Widow
+JMJ+ In the days since Charlie Kirk’s tragic passing, something deeply disturbing has unfolded, not just the loss itself, but the viciousness directed toward his wife, Erika. The very people who claim to love Charlie, claim to honor his legacy, claim to be devoted to Christ, are spending an astonishing amount of time doing the opposite. If people care so much about Charlie and his family, they’re doing a remarkable job of proving otherwise. Some people are behaving horribly.

Faith Hakesley
Dec 12, 2025


Authentic Influence: Why Integrity Matters
Even those with the best of intentions can be negatively affected by the pressures of being in the public eye.

Faith Hakesley
Sep 27, 2025


The Cross Transformed: From Death to Life
+JMJ+ To the ancient Romans, the cross was a tool of terror. It was the most shameful and brutal death imaginable, and it was reserved...

Faith Hakesley
Sep 14, 2025


A Season of Stretching—and Grace
+JMJ+ I’m into my third trimester of pregnancy with our sixth baby, and it’s safe to say this has been the most stretching season of my...

Faith Hakesley
Aug 11, 2025


When Pride Replaces Reverence: A Call to Catholic Fidelity
I’ve seen too many Catholics walk away from the Church over hard truths.

Faith Hakesley
Jul 13, 2025


Who Is My Neighbor? Mercy, Truth, and the Courage to Love Like Christ
Today’s Gospel presents one of Jesus’ most well-known parables, that of the Good Samaritan.

Faith Hakesley
Jul 13, 2025


A Troubling Dispensation: When Church Leaders Undermine the Eucharist and the Soul
Recently, the Bishop of San Bernardino issued a sweeping dispensation from the Sunday Mass obligation for all undocumented immigrants.

Faith Hakesley
Jul 10, 2025


Pettiness in the Pews: When Faith Becomes a Performance
There’s a sad, quiet kind of brokenness that sometimes plays out in church halls, prayer groups, and ministries.

Faith Hakesley
Jun 30, 2025
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