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Here is where I share insights and information about issues such as trauma, faith, and healing. I also write the occasional book review.
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Come Worthily: Preparing Our Hearts to Receive Jesus
+JMJ+ This past Sunday, Catholics celebrated the Solemnity of Corpus Christi. It is a special day on which the Church invites us to fix our eyes, minds, and hearts on the reality of the Eucharist: Jesus Christ (Body, Blood, Soul, and Divinity) is truly present under the humble appearances of bread and wine. The Eucharist is the source and summit of our faith (CCC 1324). It is Christ Himself, our strength, our sustenance, and our Savior. Every time we receive Him in Holy Commu

Faith Hakesley
Jun 27, 2025


Suffering for Priests: A Prayer I Didn’t Understand but a Grace I Still Carry
Meeting (or even just hearing about) a priest who is also a survivor of clerical abuse stops me in my tracks.

Faith Hakesley
Jun 5, 2025


Love Over Pride: Serving Others for the Right Reasons
There are situations in which we genuinely want to help someone.

Faith Hakesley
Jun 5, 2025


A Catholic Response to Pride Month
+JMJ+ Every June, we are surrounded by messages of affirmation and celebration tied to LGBTQ+ identities. For Catholics, this month can bring tension, not because we reject people, but because we are committed to truth. Truth is not negotiable even when it’s not considered fashionable. The Church has never changed its teaching on this not even under Pope Francis, whose words have often been misunderstood or misrepresented. His well-known phrase, “Who am I to judge?” has been

Faith Hakesley
Jun 1, 2025


Integrity and Discernment in the Digital Age: An Open Letter to My Fellow Catholics
We live in a time of constant content. Quotes, images, and videos fly at us from every direction.

Faith Hakesley
May 22, 2025


Surrender and Trust: Choosing Grace in the Midst of it All
+JMJ+ If there’s one word I could use to describe the last several months, it’s surrender (followed closely by trust) . This season of my life has been marked by a lot of change. My family is full of hope and joy (and nervousness) as we anticipate the birth of our sixth child due this fall. I have navigated through grief and loss, celebrating unexpected joys, and enduring unexpected sufferings. I'm doing my best to remain steady through the trials and errors. There's also

Faith Hakesley
May 22, 2025


Truth Can Hurt...Especially When It’s Twisted
+JMJ+ Years ago, when my brother suddenly died at 22, before we even had the autopsy results, a local paper ran a story implying...

Faith Hakesley
May 20, 2025


When Faith Hurts but Still Holds
+JMJ+ To anyone out there searching for faith or returning to it after years away, this is for you. Maybe you’ve been hurt. Maybe...

Faith Hakesley
May 20, 2025


A Reflection of Love, Loss, and Our Heavenly Mother
+JMJ+ Mother’s Day can bring out a full range of emotions. For some, it’s a day of celebration—of hugs, flowers, and thank-you’s. It’s a...

Faith Hakesley
May 6, 2025


Don’t You Hate It When People Mock the Catholic Faith? (Or… Do You?)
+JMJ+ Don’t you just hate it when people mock the Catholic Church? When they reduce sacred traditions to no more than pomp and...

Faith Hakesley
May 6, 2025


This Is Not the Papal Draft (Put Your Brackets and Hot Takes Away)
+JMJ+ Pope Francis has died. This is a time for deep prayer for his eternal soul and for our church. It is not a time for division, fear,...

Faith Hakesley
Apr 23, 2025


The Gift of Music: Speaking Through Joy, Hope, and Sorrow
+JMJ+ Hello, old friend. It’s been awhile since I took my violin out. Years ago, one of my greatest childhood passions was nearly stolen...

Faith Hakesley
Jan 24, 2025


Misplaced Compassion: Illegal Immigration, Hypocrisy, and the Neglect of Survivors
+JMJ+ As someone who deeply loves my faith and my Church, I feel compelled to point out a glaring injustice. I generally avoid politics...

Faith Hakesley
Jan 23, 2025


The Healing Power of the Catholic Latin Mass: A Survivor’s Reflection on the Extraordinary Form
I have found solace and peace in many places. One of those places is the Latin Mass.

Faith Hakesley
Jan 18, 2025


Why I Kneel for Communion: A Survivor’s Perspective
+JMJ+ I am a Catholic survivor of clergy abuse, and my faith has been tested in many ways. The betrayal I experienced from someone who...

Faith Hakesley
Jan 16, 2025


Book Review: Pray with Us: A Saint for Every Day by Belinda Terro Mooney
+JMJ+ I am thrilled to share my thoughts on the beautiful new 365-day prayer book, Pray with Us: A Saint for Every Day by Belinda Terro...

Faith Hakesley
Dec 4, 2024


Honoring the Eucharist: The Essence of Our Catholic Faith
Let this be a call to action for all of us. To remember the immense love and grace that Jesus offers us in the Eucharist.

Faith Hakesley
Jul 29, 2024


An Open Letter to Dr. Paolo Ruffini, Vatican's Head of the Dicastery for Communication
Dr. Paolo Ruffini Head of the Dicastery for Communication Vatican City Dear Dr. Ruffini, We write to you as victims of clerical abuse,...

Faith Hakesley
Jul 4, 2024


Honoring God-given Femininity
+JMJ+ While women around us can certainly inspire, motivate, and encourage us, it is to Mary and the saints to whom we should look to...

Faith Hakesley
Mar 8, 2024


Jesus of Divine Mercy
A reflection on Jesus of Divine Mercy +JMJ+ Jesus suffered everything we suffered. He joins us in our suffering and never leaves our...

Faith Hakesley
Apr 7, 2021
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